Gossip

It strikes me as rather cowardly in some ways to be making a post—gossiping, really, which is why I feel conflicted in writing about it—about a friend of mine who can’t read what I say and defend herself (she has her own blog but isn’t aware of our LJ); still, she has engaged, and continues to engage, in a longstanding pattern of behavior that is so irrational and self-destructive I can’t make sense out of it anymore. So if you don’t like reading about one person’s life through the eyes of another, stop reading now.

( sordid details here )