Hymn to Apollo

Oh, and the reason it matters that you're being mean is that it is really important that people educate themselves to the extent they are capable and trust authority past that point. Calling people narcissists, making vague nasty comments about their psychological state, and generally circling around and occasionally lightly touching the central insult: "you're placing your own needs above your child, you BAD MOM!" is not the way to do it.